Episode 64 – Trust Is The Cornerstone Of Every Relationship

Co-Host: Scot and Emily McKay - X & Y Communications

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It’s the foundation of every good solid relationship. With it, you and your significant other are set for years of blissful happiness together. Without it, you’re likely doomed to failure. We’re talking about trust, of course.

Emily and I have enjoyed a trusting relationship with each other for nearly sixteen years now, and we finally sat down for a deep dive into all aspects of what that trust looks like.

What causes men and women to lack (or lose) trust for each other? How do established mindsets wreak destruction on a nascent relationship before it even has a chance? Should two people trust each other at the beginning blindly, or is that earned over time?

What is a reasonable amount of suspicion versus simply being paranoid? What do you do when lack of trust becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy? And how can we shake that nagging feeling of unwillingness to trust again after getting hurt over and over…isn’t that kind of like not trusting oneself to begin with?

And what about the strain that long-distance relationships put on trust? Do prenuptial agreements automatically betray lack of trust right from the beginning? How much does communication really have to do with all of this?

Why does Emily enthusiastically support my in-field outings with guys to practice meeting women? And for the big finale, we cover the three cornerstones of a good, solid trusting relationship that’s built to last.

So what about you? Are you in a relationship where trust is lacking, and want to either build it up or get it back? Would you like to get into a healthy relationship but find it hard to trust again? Let’s get on the phone together and talk about it.

The program on how to have a great long-term relationship is finally available. Find the men’s version, Get Together, Stay Together, at www.gettogetherstaytogether.com and the women’s version, My One & Only, at www.scotandemily.com